People are so complex that we don’t even understand our minds half the time. And here, 7.5 billion trapped by us on this rock, we need to communicate, each with different goals and values and beliefs and we have to try and make friends.
When I say connections, I’m talking about all kinds of communication. Friends, family, colleagues, by kissing someone.
The red flag is a term that everyone knows. The man cheated on everyone he was with? Red flag. Man only uses people to his advantage? Red flag. The person does not wipe the knife after smearing butter on bread and small crumbs remain in the box? Red flag! What about other red flags that appear when you already have a close relationship?
When you have a good opinion of someone, the flags are ignored or you start saying: “But they are a good person. I trust them! Heh, in a sense, they wouldn’t hurt me on purpose.
” It is easy to make sense of bad signs in a bad relationship when you think the person is good. But that doesn’t mean they’re not there, or that they should be ignored. They are still nasty. But it’s confused by your story together.
I think most people are too kind, passive or understanding. It is often very easy to do. Because of this, toxic relationships are more common and it is difficult to know who to look for.
There is a chance that you are in a bad relationship right now without realizing it.