The term “manipulation” is widely used. And that’s why people think they might know her if it happened to them.
But it’s not as easy as: “Chad and Sally are together. Sally wants to go out with friends. Chad makes Sally stay home together. Chad is a manipulator! ” In fact, it is a fairly common occurrence with manipulation. But the way it works is that it builds up slowly over time and is completely emotional. Instead, Chad can isolate Sally from friends and complain about them one by one. -I don’t like how Nick talks to girls. It’s weird. Don’t you think Don drinks too much? Not very responsible. Little things like this can make Sally trust Chad more.
Several months pass and Sally does not talk to any of her friends. Chad successfully isolates her, which means he has more control over her. You may still think that it is easy to see and that some people feel easier than others. I think it’s important to know how things are much more human in real life than when we talk about them For example, we are told to believe that drugs are AWFUL. At a party, the lights are shining and someone comes and tells you: -Hey baby … Do you want to use drugs? Time is slowing down! The cigarette shines with evil energy! You look and you know their horns and teeth have grown and O GOD, SATAN- No. this does not happen. Really, you will be in a little vision with close friends. Have a nice evening, for now. Laughing and having a good time, as always. One pulls out a small bag and says: -Hey, I have coke. No delays, or sirens. It’s a perfectly normal feeling and you’re suddenly confused.
“Drugs are bad, but this is my friend we know each other from 5th grade. He’s a normal dude. Not bad … Will the others do it? ” Your brain invents anything to forgive the behavior of someone close to you.
It can be difficult, but you have to know how people should treat you and not let them get you into bad situations. Manipulating relationships are damn common. And it’s hard because your head is kicking and you feel like a crushed fly. Trapped, Powerless, sad. If the corpses feel at all. I mean, they’re just dead.
Emotional blackmail is a way to manipulate someone through fear or obligation to them. Is someone aggressive, too supervisory, are they threatening you with things like “Finish it or I’ll hurt you”. Even “Finish it or I’ll hurt myself”?
This leads to another difficult situation. They put you in a complicated place because you feel obliged to do what the man wants because obviously you care about them and you don’t want them to feel that way or even get hurt.
This is a hard pill to swallow: You are not responsible for someone’s happiness!
- But they have bad self-esteem, and I worry that- -You are not responsible for someone’s happiness!
- But they are very depressed -That’s why I think if you just- -You’re NOT responsible for someone’s happiness!
Even if your heart breaks, people are generally not prepared to help with such problems. So, it is best to offer them a specialist who is trained in these things. Although they have personal difficulties, this manipulation does not allow them not to maintain a strong relationship. It’s important to think about.